After I touched down off my cross country flight from Oakland to Toronto, the first thing I did when I got home was catch up with some of my boys and my homegirls to find out what I missed when I was gone. I instantly called up my two homegirls when I got home (one is Filipino and the other is Honduran) and they informed that the mayor of Toronto is "allegedly" on tape smoking crack, the Maple Leafs had an epic ... Read More

For those of you who may not have heard, Dr. Dre and Jimmy Iovine (the Co-Founder of Interscope Records) donated a combined $70 million to create a new institute at USC called the Jimmy Iovine and Andre Young (Dre's real name) Academy for Arts, Technology and the Business of Innovation. This academy will provide a special four-year program for students whose interests span several fields from marketing to computer science to visual design and other arts. After this donation was made public, ... Read More

Before we begin today's discussion on why A LOT of married people need to SHUT THE HELL UP with their condescending and unsolicited relationship advice, I have a BIG announcement that I've actually been keeping secret for about a week now... Read More

As I write this, I am STRUGGLING to regain my old sleep schedule as I am less than 48 hours removed from Oakland and my ass is officially getting KICKED trying to transition from Pacific time to Eastern time. As some of you may know, I was out in The Bay for the first stop in the 2013 Battle Of The Sexes Tour and the event went REALLY well. Everyone had a great time, I managed to make a LOT of new ... Read More

I'm gonna use one of my (traumatic) past experiences to provide y'all a scenario that most men have had to deal with on some level before. One Saturday afternoon I was chilling with my ex in our hotel room after a long morning of smashing, eating breakfast, smashing again, napping, waking up to watch TV and then smashing again [ah, to be young again]. Well, we decided it was about time to go do something instead of lay around the room, so we ... Read More

As I've mentioned on this site before, the show "Shark Tank" (a.k.a. "Dragon's Den") is one of my favourite programs on TV because it gives the good, the bad and the ugly realities of chasing your dream. It can be used as a pamphlet on how to achieve your goals, and it can also be a manual on what mistakes you MUST avoid. I think the scariest part of the show for ANY entrepreneur, is hearing how much money these people invest ... Read More

The one thing I see quite clearly as I get older, is that I can separate the single people my age (late 20's to mid 30's) in one of two groups: Bitter & Lonely OR Damaged & Trying. The first group are the people so jaded by their negative dating experiences, that all they can do is badtalk the concept of happiness and be frowsy as often as possible. The second group are the people who have been through so much severe ... Read More

I think the smartest decision I've ever made in my life was to avoid running trains on women PERIOD (although my friends use to be REALLY into that). The idea of seeing my boy's orgasm-faces, hearing their good-nani moans, and seeing ANY part of their exposed bare-ass was just the height of FROWSINESS to me. So, during my formative years, I made the life-decision that the only time I would ever engage in ANY sex act (whether solo or orgy), all the ... Read More

Some people have been asking me what happened to my Tuesday night radio show "Let Me Tell You Why You're Wrong". Well, that show is DEAD - and it's been replaced by a MUCH BETTER show called Relationships & Bullshit: LIVE, which will be premiering TONIGHT on Spreecast. Yes people, I will be going from doing a radio show to live streaming my ENTIRE face for everyone to see. Since Battle of the Sexes in Oakland goes down on Friday and the ... Read More

I have a homegirl who actually broke up with her man yesterday (on Mother's Day no less) because, as she says, their relationship had officially lost "the spark". Now, by "spark", she means they stopped smashing a couple weeks ago, and that led to their emotional connection eventually dissipating too. Eventually they went from being lovers to awkward friends. After breaking up with him, she called me to explain what happened and to ask me HOW a grown-ass man could just UP ... Read More