The Black Woman Booty Conundrum: Why Black Women MUST Have Big A*ses

This past weekend I was having a discussion with a young woman about one of my blog topics I wrote months ago [http://www.thisisyourconscience.com/2010/07/the-downside-of-being-characterized-as-a-hung-black-sex-machine/]. She stated that while she DOES agree that there is negative imagery heaped upon Black men by the characterization of the MANDINDO sexual warrior, BUT it pales in comparison to the characterization of how Black women WITHOUT ample amounts of Booty are treated in total – especially by OTHER Blacks.

The booty pic above is not just solely for stimulating visual effect, but it typifies what the world [including MOST Black people] like in a beautiful a*s, yet seemingly DEMAND unflinchingly from Black women. She continued to state that this is NOT just a psycho-sexual issue about identifying the strengths and weaknesses of the modern day Black woman’s struggle with staying sexy, but something a LOT deeper than that: According to her, we as a society have not only correlated the Black woman’s bum with her sexual identity, but with her overall worthiness of being a Black woman – and I could not agree anymore.

After taking a step back to really think about it, there is a difference in characterization between any race of women NOT having a DONK and Black women who don’t. When it comes to causcasian, a*s size is nothing more than a footnote; a physical character that can be used to describe a woman if she so pleases.

If she sits down too fast, guarantee she dislodges some vertebrae

And while Latin & Asian women face their own steep battles of objective beauty, the reality is there is nothing more annoying and potentially self-sabotaging to the female psyche than a Black woman who, for all intents and purposes is gorgeous and attractive:

But then has to explain why she has this dragging behind her:

When I first heard that Countess Vaughn (a.k.a. Kim Parker from The Parkers) got a booty-implant, I was actually not surprised at all, because like so many Black women, she wrapped her a*s-appeal around more than just looking SEXY, but looking like a “Real” Black woman. And while it would be so easy to blame the white man and their prejudicial eye of Sara Baartman, I’m afraid the continuation of this stereotype likes in the hands of US – ALL Black people.

The reality is, we STILL don’t have the Black Female form in proper perspective. We as Black folk need to STOP attributing lack of assets to being inherently less Black but hopefully we can address this topic like mature adults and not just run away from the conversation like we seen a ghost – or Vybz Kartel holding a tin of Cake Soap.

This Is Your Conscience

When Lincoln Anthony Blades is not writing for his controversial and critically acclaimed blog ThisIsYourConscience.com, he can be found contributing articles for Uptown Magazine. Lincoln wrote the hilarious and insightful book "You're Not A Victim, You're A Volunteer: How To Stop Letting Love Kick Your Ass". He is also a public speaker who has sat on panels all over North America and the Caribbean.

178 Comments

  1. max

    01/25/2011 at 9:41 AM

    As an ass-deprived Black woman I approve this message.

  2. hisandhersinks

    01/25/2011 at 10:35 AM

    I don't even know how to begin to thank you for writing this post. A Black man is speaking the truth on this issue??? Who are you? I'm elated! As a black woman who is lacking the approved threshold of ass I thoroughly appreciate this post. It is a pocket of intraracial ignorance that people are starkly bound by. It's sad my own people, my own sisters relegate my value because I don't have a fat ass and wide hips. "The reality is, we STILL don’t have the Black Female form in proper perspective." #supremeanalysis. Here we are thinking that as Black people we have embraced this so called unique beauty despite the hate of White people while all we've done is segmented our culture and devalued more Black women intraracially. It is quite a complex not be embraced by the majority White society alongside sheilding the rejection you face from your own people for not having a "Black woman's body". This is by far the most relevant post I will read all year!

  3. madscientist7

    01/25/2011 at 11:31 AM

    great post. honestly while looking at and holding a great a$$ is a thing of beauty i must say that sometimes it is simply overrated. sure if a woman has it then that add points but i don't think it should subtract points from women who don't have those assets.

  4. Kamla Kay

    01/25/2011 at 12:00 PM

    i do alot of squats. ALOT. I don't even need to look like pic #1 and just sure as hyull need to not look like pic #2.

    uhmmm yeah…sorry for making light of the issue!

  5. I'm Just Saying

    01/25/2011 at 12:01 PM

    this is great! it is true, and we as a people need to value our women more for than how much or how little of a physical asset they have. it is just another way of making black women feel insecure in inadequate because of what others say. women of other races dont place so much of a value on A*s/backside/booty/bumpah/whatever you want to call it, so why should we? We have beautiful strong women that we need to value and appreciate no matter their shape.

  6. A.j. Black-Beauty

    01/25/2011 at 12:10 PM

    Great post! Unfortunately, this issue is mostly unacknowledged by the vast majority of black people and always will.
    I say, what good is a fat a*s if it's attached to a complete idiot? Just a thought.

  7. ATLienSince82

    01/25/2011 at 12:21 PM

    I ain't tryin to offend everyone and break up the love fest, but yawl need to ease up on dissin women blessed with booty…i love me some Melysa Ford and I'll be damned if I hear yawl degrade her good name (and ass) LOL

  8. MzDebbieFields

    01/25/2011 at 12:30 PM

    As a white woman with a round booty, I honestly think Black Women overdo it too much with this topic…

    Like I refuse to believe that a Black Woman with a flat ass has a more difficult life than a White Woman with a flat ass or Asian woman etc…in our society we expect all women to have a certain body type, not just Black Women..

    I think Black Women are beautiful but there's a time and place to play the race card..#JussSaying

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  10. The_Mad_HATER

    01/25/2011 at 1:07 PM

    theres too much bs going on right now! yall hatin on big ass having girls to make yall selves feel better?! i cant rock with that!

  11. Gordan

    01/25/2011 at 1:46 PM

    Not having an ass dont make u less black andu shouldnt be teased. To me vivica fox still has a little

  12. law and order

    01/25/2011 at 1:51 PM

    I've seen Vivica's booty look huge before… I'm shocked and confused. probably just a bad pic.

  13. Gordan

    01/25/2011 at 1:54 PM

    Ass. I thjnk she wearing a horrible fitting jean and dont forget she older now that shit loses a bit of elasticity. But if a black girl is packing what that first white girl had!?! That unacceptable. To me thats the same thing as not feeling sorry for fat people cuz they indulged in glutton. The girl with no ass too me didnt eat enough, and didnt engage in herself well in activity of any kind sports, walking, exercise in general. That wud at least give her roundness, whi h is a pass by me, but that white girl bum deserves a bit of teasing. But not the sort that would absolutely have her feeling less black

  14. Kam

    01/25/2011 at 2:13 PM

    In the black community there is pressure to have the thick look and then it goes to far and you have women claiming their thick when their really overweight and obsessed so this issue runs really deep.

    There is pressure to have a certain body type, but embrace what you have don't feel ashamed that your part of the itty bitty titty comity or you have a small bum. People are going under the knife to get bigger breast, bums, lips its just not necessary.

    I had a someone who is close to me who felt she should get breast implants I told her NO …she was beautiful and did not need to change or alter her body image in anyway. Their will be a man out their who will find you attractive no matter what shape you have.

    Their some girls out their with some big bums and their face is not all that. So leave it alone some girls will have a pretty face some will have better bodys that's just how it goes.

  15. MzDebbieFields

    01/25/2011 at 3:05 PM

    Oh please, there is nothing racist about admitting when people are actually using the race card. Everyone here is being so sensitive that you all WANT me to be a racist, but if you knew me, you would know I'm not.

    I just want to have this discussion without the BS and talk like grown ups. All women have it difficult and to make it seem like black women have it the hardest in the world, when i would argue middle eastern women have it WAYYY harder, is just begging for sympathy.

  16. Streetz

    01/25/2011 at 3:31 PM

    I agree withNotorious LAB on this one…

    Personally, I love a plump booty but its far from a deal breaker. Women can naturally make their butt look voluptuous witjh squats and lunges. simple as that.

    Great commentary too!

  17. I'm Just Saying

    01/25/2011 at 4:05 PM

    lol yes you are a woman…but a WHITE woman…so you're not qualified to speak on issues that affect black women…just because you have more ass than average white girl doesn't mean you're anywhere close to relating to black women! you can talk about body type expectations for days and thats cool but the second you wanna talk about black issues without being black is a no no…

  18. hisandhersinks

    01/25/2011 at 4:07 PM

    Btw, I've decided that I'm gonna be the first Black woman with no ass to grace the cover of KING, XXL, etc. And you, and you, and you….You're gonna love me!!!!!!! lol

  19. ATLienSince82

    01/25/2011 at 4:34 PM

    OMG!! #2..

    Where am I? What universe is this? Is this Ground Hog day??

  20. Kam

    01/25/2011 at 4:52 PM

    Yes you're Irish well as someone who is black I can't speak for Irish issues can I? I may be able to relate but I will never fully know their struggles b/c I'm not Irish. That's the same with Black issues. And trying to come off all innocent now pppfft. You accused black women of playing the race card, said we're are being sensitive and trying to seeking sympathy I think everyone here calls bullsh!t.

  21. MzDebbieFields

    01/25/2011 at 5:15 PM

    That;s NOT how things are nowadays! All women get looked down upon…thats why so many white women are getting butt injections like Kim K

  22. Kam

    01/25/2011 at 5:18 PM

    Yep we're women and we may have some of the same issues that don't affect which race we are but NOT this one. You have the standard of beauty you we do not. Our issue about our a$s comes from cultural, historical and social issues. We may relate but can't fully understand. Sigh.

  23. Independent Woman

    01/25/2011 at 5:26 PM

    In the end, white people can NOT keep trying to align their arguments with minorities and frame them as the exact same problem. There is a thing called "White privilege" that prevents white people from understanding what we are going through, and Debbie proved that.

  24. Streetz

    01/25/2011 at 5:30 PM

    OK MsFields,

    I think you aren't getting it at all and I understand because most non black people will ever get it. You have a point thatw omen have been objectified period. i get that. What you are missing is that this post was related to the Black WOMAN plight of oversexified bodies. This is a race issue because the writer brought it up as such.

    I feel you on the Irish plight. 99% of African Americans in this country have no idea of their true origins because of slavery. We are a displaced people. In this country, we were reduced to only physical value. In other countries (hotentot venus anyone?) our black womens curvaceous, veloptuous nature, was put on display like they were zoo animals.

    White woman havent had a SHRED of that happen to them, which is why the black women in this post are so vehemently against your POV. As women, you have a struggle. This is segmented to black woman though.

    Even latina women, who get grouped at times with black women, don't know as much because thats not as much a defining character made by society(their assets) as much as long hair, accents, and a "mira mir papi" attitude is, which they will flip out over as well!

    No one disputes your points about womens plight and discrimination, we are just saying that in a post that specifically talks about how this affects black women, you cant say people are playing a race card. Thats like me telling Superman that kryptonite poisoning is manegable in small doses.

    Hope that helps.

  25. madscientist7

    01/25/2011 at 5:59 PM

    i take a 2 hour nap in the middle of the day and this is what i come back to? just smh privileged attitudes i tell you.

  26. A Grown Ass Man

    01/25/2011 at 6:32 PM

    Is it just me or is Independent Woman slowly becoming one of the better posters on this site? Lol.

  27. Cherysh Blackman-St.John

    01/25/2011 at 7:14 PM

    First the easy part – I don't think this post or the subsequent comments were meant to highlight a black womans ass as played out but simply instead to illustrate that for all black women across the myriad of space we occupy the one standard we are expected to meet is that of a large ass – even Jack asses like lil Wayne who expect his women to be red, with long flowing weaves grey eyes and a perfect nose ( the Caucasian beauty standards forced upon all women) expect the black women he surrounds himself with to have a fat ass – and black women who do not possess such are not simply seen as less beautiful as all other beauty standards do across all races – they are seen as less of a woman – period.

  28. Cherysh Blackman-St.John

    01/25/2011 at 7:28 PM

    For ms. Fields – don't get me wrong I neither agree with you nor disagree with you I just think you're confused – you viewed this as a post on standards of beauty – it wasn't – the current established standards of beauty are hard to achieve yes, but as a caucasian woman it is inherently easier for you to achieve said standard of beauty ( it being based on caucasian women) than it is for other races – but and I will pull the race card out and throw it right across the table – it is hardest for a black woman or woman of majority African descent – to acheive said standard. What the post was about was the pressure placed on black women by this particular beauty standard that originated within their own community – the mere fact that the standard is internal means there is that much more pressure to attain it, and lacking it means that there is not just oh a cute flat ass black girl walking around instead she is viewed as having something inherently wrong with her, she can't be completely black if her ass is flat – there is something wrong with her. I have been asked on numerous occasions if I am mixed and what prompted the question was not my complexion or my hair texture or even my features ( which are according to phenotype etc. Etc. More white than black) but because I do not have a black ass – plain and simple.

    And to the idiot that posted about food, squats and lunges – no it doesn't necessarily contribute to the size and roundness of the ass – what determines the size and shape of the buttocks is the size and shape of the muscle within – full stop. You might be able to make it bigger but if it looks flat when it's small it'll still look flat when it's big.

  29. imakesense

    01/25/2011 at 8:52 PM

    omg 119 comments?

    MzDebbieFields and her fake avatar is a hot mess!

    *edited to add* I am now aware she knows damn well that ain't her -_-

  30. law and order

    01/25/2011 at 9:12 PM

    Ummmm just a question, if Ms. Debbie Fields is so concerned with the objectification of ALL women, then why is she the only trick butt a*s naked in her pic??!! hahahahahahahaha

  31. imakesense

    01/25/2011 at 9:44 PM

    This issue is actually more serious than it seems.

    I'm not Carribbean, however I have had many friends inform me of a "chicken pill" or "fowl pill" used to thicken chicken up.

    Females were ingesting these pills to thicken up their bum and thighs. It works but eventually you start to gain weight ALL over.

    It was actually banned because women were dying from intenstine cancer complications due to the pill. People are still importing it from JA to Canada to this day.

    A thick booty or life? I think I'll choose the latter…

  32. Streetz

    01/26/2011 at 12:30 PM

    wow this post still goin…

  33. ebonyebony

    01/26/2011 at 7:08 PM

    That isnt even her. hmm. It's a damn shame you all wasted so much valuable time on this debbie garbage. Ya'll should have left that right where it was. SMH. Five seconds of typing that I can never get back. Sigh.

  34. Tasha

    01/26/2011 at 10:36 PM

    Can everyone STOP trying to explain things to Debbie Does Dallas…or whatever her name is…

    Obviously, she really wants to be a Black woman since she has tried to change a Black woman's issue into a woman's issue…to try and fit in. I will bet her and all white friends have children with Black men.

    PS – The blog addresses a BLACK woman's ass, so if you aren't BLACK you don't understand. If you are white and you agree with the blog, just say "I agree with this blog because as a white woman I feel some pressure to live up to certain expectations with my body too" and leave it at that!

  35. MistaHarsh

    01/27/2011 at 1:19 AM

    I like how Linc is sitting in the background eating popcorn watching this ish go down. 100+ posts of this wretchednes and you haven't said sheeeeit

  36. keisha brown

    01/28/2011 at 12:05 AM

    i got nothing to add (mostly because it's x amt of days later and its already BEEN said)…but i want to S/O IW, Max + Star for their insightful amazing commentary as per usual.
    i've never hit the thumbs up so many times in one post!

  37. ÉmpressGoddard

    02/08/2011 at 12:54 PM

    :s I’m sorry I’m only reading this now. Even though I have a booty I agree and appreciate this article because it opens up to a much bigger problem that we as a people have amongst ourselves. For black women it doesn’t start and end with our booty’s. We’re teased for not having “good hair”or long hair vs short hair, being dark skinned as opposed to light skinned, and yes if we have a booty or if we don’t, being “white-washed” for choosing to use ebonics or act in a way that’s not considered “black”. Its something I do agree goes back to slavery n not having a sense of what it really is to be a black male or female. A lack of racial identity and pride having not a clue about our true history and the extent of our accomplishments. But that’s another blog topic to come I’m sure.

    @MzDebbieFields
    You irritate me. Numerous people have tried to break it down for you but you don’t seem to get it. This is NOT a blog about the struggles of white women and white men. This isnt a blog about black women vs white women. This blog is about black women and the things we struggle with amongst our own. This is not a “oh how white people did black people wrong” blog so I’m not sure what “race card” you’re talking about. It was clearly pointed out at the beginning that all women have issues within their own race, so you had your mention. The author of this blog touched on what he or she knows about; how a gender of their race(namingly black women) is objectified within their own community. Take a note from his book and make a blog speaking on what you know about because you clearly do NOT know anything about this seeing as you couldn’t possibly even get the simple message. Which is that as oppose to bringing each other down on things such as “whether or not she’s black enough based on the size of her behind.” although it wasn’t mentioned this issue is deeper than just being objectified by a man or even a black man. Because you’re not black, you don’t live it and will NOT understand it and shouldn’t ever pace your place to even form an opinion on it never mind publish it.

    Moving on, that being said we should be trying to uplift each other as a people. There has been years of other races and yes, especially white people telling us our black is not beautiful or if it is then only this shade and type is beautiful. We don’t need to be telling each other that we’re not beautiful. If we weren’t busy pulling each other down it wouldn’t matter what any other person of any other race had to say. Point being I can brush off someone of another race telling me I’m not beautiful but it hurts more n probably does a lot more damage hearing your own telling you “you’re not beautiful or black enough because…”

    We have a crab-in-the-bucket mentallity that hinders us from growing, progressing, and even loving and getting comfortable with ourselves.

    Thank you soo much for opening this up and giving people and most importantly other black people something to think about! <3

  38. ÉmpressGoddard

    02/08/2011 at 1:03 PM

    Lmao
    @ebonyeye & tasha wish I read yours first. Wrapped it up very nicely lol

  39. @TAARenaissance

    02/09/2011 at 1:19 PM

    I have a FB too…

  40. Uk

    02/10/2011 at 10:59 AM

    Here is a link to the pressures of not having a big ass. http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1355080/C

  41. Jon

    03/06/2011 at 12:03 AM

    As a Young black Man, I appreciate everyblack woman. I am especially attracted to women with big asses. This attraction I am afraid is sometimes is just physical and nothing more. I can't see myself going any further with most big assed girls. Reason being, some Black Women with big asses act as though thats all that matters.They've let the ass overshadow them.

  42. poediddly

    03/24/2011 at 3:21 PM

    A girl with no ass gets no dick from me,srry miss..I gotta have at leats a little butt to smash like a jogger girl/atheltic booty at least,a prefer a nice big ass.

  43. b bro

    05/22/2011 at 2:38 PM

    Kam you said it all. On point. Nature giveth body and booty. But sometimes it just don't happen. Most everybody else just proving that nature's gift of the mind sometimes ain't just small but actuallycan taketh away as often as giveth. A white woman like Mz Fields (who knows anybody's real pic, and i don't care anyway) gives an opinion and we all defining what we say we try to disprove. Black community trying to isolate and struggle within about this that or the other definition of a black woman, booty size shape or how best to git it, why we wanna hit it tellin Mz Fields that white opinions aren't a part of the problem? Come again? Thank you Mz Fields however your booty look. For the dialogue even though you don't really understand the depth of the prob. But how is she supposed to? Kam ty for stickin to the issue. The rest is fluff.

  44. class of fitness

    06/14/2011 at 11:39 PM

    where did that image come from, i mean the white guy hands on the black women booty?

  45. 18daboo

    07/08/2011 at 4:30 PM

    Sometimes i do feel that my ideal as a black women was degraded/subtracted due to my lack of booty. I had a friend whos ass was off the chart, then there was me, lol. Ive had guys tell me that i wasnt a true black girl because i didnt have enough ass. :{ which is total wrongness. haha im trying to do some booty lifts now.

  46. Michael E McQueen

    07/16/2011 at 12:52 PM

    I think you are who you are from birth. accept what GOD gave you & move on with life. I see allot of white women with Much BIGGER asses then Black women. but I love my BIGGER female asses to be Chocolate so i prefer Black women. who started up this "Black Women Have Bigger Asses Then White Women" Shit?… how stupid. its on a individual basis. No matter what the color of the women is i PREFER my female asses to BE As LARGE as the women toting it around can get hers.

  47. Black Devil

    10/13/2011 at 6:52 AM

    Niggers are scum. Even ur skulls haven’t evolved, and u represent z caveman that stayed in the oven too long

  48. michelle

    12/01/2011 at 1:19 PM

    I think the irish girl is half right and half wrong. I think that all woman have it hard on body images in thier own ways. Black woman are in a steryeo type were they all need to have big asses . That sucks for the black women who dont have big asses because they are treated diffrently and can be called names. Since all races of men have adopted to like big asses now white girls struggle because most dont have asses so they have to doo sooo much to try to accually get an ass to prove the steryeo type wrong and get attention from men that they have nice asses too..So both whites and blackes have it hard.

  49. Tanisha

    12/22/2011 at 7:59 PM

    As a young black teen who is thin, the pressure from other girls to have big butts is RIDICULOUS!!!! In my high school where the majority of students were black, the girls kept telling me that I had no butt, even the ones who were thinner than me and had NO CURVES to speak of !!! I do have a good size chest, not to big or too small, and they assume that my ass should be the same! However, according to my measurements I'm proportionate! Even my friend, who is bigger than me (almost 200 pounds) and doesn't have much of a butt, tries to say that she has a bigger butt than I do! The reality is that black women don't naturally have bigger butts! Our butts may be more lifted, but they are in no way bigger. And if it is in our DNA to have such big butts, WHY are so many black women getting booty implants and shots!!! We created this stereotype, we have to get rid of it!!! I've always said 80% of black women with big (I mean huge, not reasonable sized) has altered it in some way, wether it be artificially or with clothing!!! And the next time someone tells you that you don't have a big butt ask them : "why do you care, did u wanna have sex with me?" because that is the only reason black men like big butts, nothing else!!!!!

  50. guest

    01/05/2012 at 6:40 PM

    i am a black female and i love big black women with big asses and tits.does that make me gay?

  51. rudylipz

    02/06/2012 at 11:06 AM

    I got to add my two cents everyone had riveting comments .Miz independent t kudo ma……….. I am black and I live in A caribbean society that’s is booty prejudice been black and not sexy is a definite no no out here u have to have a drunk in the trunk trust Me you will walk on the street and it is there so if u batty flat Next……… Its simple as that Black woman are put under pressure countless of times to fit in some mold that is just always not possible White people will never understand even when u associate when them the stigma of racism will never disappear it will inherently be there it just depends on who u associate with……… In terms of the slavery comment why do you think there are so many mixed raced those slave masters were attracted to the curvaceous figures to begin with so debbie u need to check your history before u step on we may be black but we are not stupid the facts are there!!!!!!! Be aware before you talk about black issues because u will never know what its like to live in a society that Visual!!!!!!!!

  52. marshall

    02/19/2012 at 5:38 AM

    I think Debbie's comment kinda stems from intimidation. Black girls have something they are known for and even if it's detrimental to the black girls who don't have a big ass she still feel offended because it's another standard of beauty to add to pressure of all women including her. which gives her more body issues welcome to the cruel world Debbie. I also highly doubt the black girls running around in urban areas have any work done because I doubt most can afford it, so with that being said having a big ass isn't a big deal because it is so common.
    To have big ass, a pretty face, and big tits is much better. So the standard of beauty is high even for black girls Debbie. In fact not to have AT LEAST a big ass and be a black girl is the issue that they are talking about Debbie do you get it now? Black girls without at LEAST a big ass get treated like white girls with red hair like freaks of nature by all races of men. It's wrong but it's true and that is the issue they were addressing.

  53. gabby

    07/17/2012 at 11:58 AM

    This is why I am open to dating mostly non black guys I have always been turned down by black guys. Being a skinny small booty black girl is tough

  54. ILoveMyBigBooty

    11/10/2012 at 9:13 PM

    I am a black woman with a big ass and it ALWAYS comes up at least twice a week in a conversation I shit you not. The men at work always flirt with me old and young black, white, asian etc. When I was younger I wanted to be white because all the pretty girls on TV were white. I went to a mostly white school when I was young for 2 years and was teased about my hair and big butt relentlessly and that destroyed my self confidence and worth. As I got older and much wiser and big booty became mainstream I thanked God for not answering my wish for shrinking my butt–not just because of mainstream but because by that time my confidence had skyrocketed by simply loving and accepting myself. I always seem to surprise people, even my own because I speak intelligently I'll speak slang too when I feel like–that's just me. I've had men tell me that they're glad I'm not just all ass and no brains. DUH I went to college for a reason. As a race we haven't done enough to study the psychological affects/effects that slavery had on us. Without going into a long story this is what I've learned. I will ALWAYS love my people because we come in so many shades–more than any other race. Embrace it. DO NOT be ashamed of your BIG or SMALL booty EMBRACE it there is someone out there for you and THEY DO NOT HAVE TO BE BLACK everyone has a preference and as long as they are NOT rooted in self hate more LOVE and LIFE to you and yours. Society wants us to be ashamed of being black period but me I'm actually glad and proud God made me a woman and a black one with a fat behind I would not have it any other way. I dont have much in the rack department but I have handfuls and that;s fine by me. We have NO idea how strong our black race is if we would just stop with the bullshit and truly love ourselves and each other and stood up for one another. No amount of money or racism would EVER divide us. We ARE powerful and it scares other races because when a black person does something EVERYBODY else wants to do it too. I LOVE MY BIG BOOTY and it does NOT define me but it definitely helps when you're looking–to find me lol. My favourite thing to do is shatter people's (lowered) expectations of me and my race and that's what we should all do. If they're gonna paint us all with the same brush I'm gonna be the one to paint over it with my own brush.

  55. Guesswho

    02/03/2013 at 5:25 PM

    Most women who are well endowed in that area are overweight. However, so many black women, including our own mothers, will not tell a teenaged black women who is endowed that she is also overweight. They do not want them to lose their 'figure', which often includes a big stomach and a fat face, for fear that they will lose the backside. In addition, some women who did not have a backside but ended up with an overweight daughter who happens to have one, encourage poor eating habits so that the daughter can 'keep' what the mother never had.

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