“A Grown-Ass Man Wouldn’t Label ANY Woman A H0E”

Last weekend, me and a few of my friends were having our infamous & ignorant “which race of women suck richard better than the others” conversation, which naturally progressed into what sex acts constitute hoeish behaviour. After bouncing ideas back and forth off of each other, it was time for the Dishonest Gentleman to “set us straight” by proclaiming “grown ass men don”t label any women as hoes.” My reply: “Nigga sit ‘yo punk-ass down.”

The only thing worse than this idiot saying that stupid sh*t, was the fact that all of the women in the conversation gave him a polite golf clap for being “a real man” and not being as “immature” as the rest of us. Most of those women were IDIOTS too because 1) the hoe label is NOT just specific to women, it includes MEN too and 2) women know damn-well the extent of how STANK many women actually act, so for them to applaud what he said with the inherent knowledge they already have is foolish as hell.

The main point is acting like there aren’t people out here with stupid, reckless and dangerous sexual practices is, well, stupid, reckless and dangerous.

Look, we all know that Hoe is probably the most constantly misused, overused and baseless insult in the English language and there’s a lot of bitter chicks and vagina dudes who throw around that label to any woman who decides to have sex with any man more than twice or a dude who legitimately leaves his girl for someone he actually loves more. But to believe that this misuse of the term somehow justifies eliminating the use of the term altogether is stupid as hell.

Whether you want to believe it or not, they’re out here – and they are coming in your house at night snatching your peoples up. Its not a MYTH that there are HOES out here who will f*^k anything moving whether in or out of a relationship. Some of these HOES will suck and ride raw richard even while in a relationship, putting not only her health, but her man’s health as well, completely at risk.

And it’s NOT just Young Money wishing they could [and actually TRYING] to smash every girl in the world. There are MANY dudes out there with a consistent history of excessive cheating and ridiculously reckless sexual behaviour like my boy who went on a vacation to the Dominican – and slammed 6 girls – all with NO condom – while his girl sat at home hoping he was enjoying his trip. And you are now gonna try to convince me that calling HIM out is suppose to be immature and unclassy? Get the hell outta my face with that sh*t.

Now obviously it’s hard as hell to do a realistic audit of anybody’s sexual history and tendencies outside of high school and university but if you deem it necessary to protect yourself you will turn on your innate Hoe-Radar. I already KNOW most people’s argument: “Grown ass men don’t care about what happened in a woman’s sexual past!” And if that’s your stance, fine. I just don’t wanna hear SH*T when you come home too early and realize her breath smells like 5 different blends of semen herbs and spices.

This Is Your Conscience

When Lincoln Anthony Blades is not writing for his controversial and critically acclaimed blog ThisIsYourConscience.com, he can be found contributing articles for Uptown Magazine. Lincoln wrote the hilarious and insightful book "You're Not A Victim, You're A Volunteer: How To Stop Letting Love Kick Your Ass". He is also a public speaker who has sat on panels all over North America and the Caribbean.


  1. lincolnanthonyblades

    06/10/2011 at 11:41 AM

    Ladies & Gentlemen, Do You Believe There Are Any Benefits To Identifying And Avoiding Hoes Are Do You Agree That It's Just An Act Of Complete Immaturity?

    • imakesense

      06/10/2011 at 3:44 PM

      There's no benefits to labeling them to the point where that's their identity. There's more to a person than their sexual conduct. If their sexual behaviour is not in line with what you feel is a moral and appropriate way to conduct yourself, the mature thing to do is just not associate with the person in any way, shape, or form. Rather than telling her you can't mess with her because she is a HOE.

      • ATLienSince82

        06/10/2011 at 3:57 PM

        Do hoes know they are hoes?

  2. Crystal Promo-Fernandez

    06/10/2011 at 12:19 PM

    Labeling anyone a hoe should be done with careful consideration because it's not clue to try to damage someone emotionally because of that, but I won't act like there aren't some skeezers who deserve that title

  3. Bruhman 3rd Flo'

    06/10/2011 at 12:31 PM

    I agree with the sentiment that grown ass men shouldn't be out here calling women hoes and tricks and all that dumb shit…unless you looking to marry a virgin she has some bodies on her so why even stress it??

    Shit just be happy she's letting you hit it now and keep it moving!

    • MzDebbieFields

      06/10/2011 at 1:41 PM


      They say a slut is just a woman who thinks about sex the same way a man does..

    • ChloeRayne516

      06/10/2011 at 3:46 PM


    • Casey

      07/22/2012 at 10:59 PM


  4. imakesense

    06/10/2011 at 3:39 PM

    Anyone watch "Single Ladies"? That blonde bish is a HOE.

    "1) the hoe label is NOT just specific to women, it includes MEN too"

    I completely agree but were you not the one that made a past post on how men can't be sluts? Or am I remembering things that never occurred

  5. ChloeRayne516

    06/10/2011 at 3:53 PM

    LOOK!!!! If it walks like a duck and quacks like a duck then guess what??!!!! it's a effin duck. (HOE) now that does not mean a woman or man who chooses to serial date is a hoe, but if they are getting it in with anybody and everybody without any discernment then yeah I just may have to put that hoe stamp on you,

    • ATLienSince82

      06/10/2011 at 3:55 PM

      Yeah some of these hoes out here need to be called out…but how do you define a hoe tho??

      • chloerayne516

        06/10/2011 at 7:21 PM

        A woman or man who sleeps around excessively with multiple people who doesn't exercise discernment. They just be fcuking everybody…

  6. ATLienSince82

    06/10/2011 at 3:55 PM

    I think everyone should get a heads up if they dealing with a hoe and after they got the facts its up to them if they want to continue dating them or leave, but damn give a nigga the choice at least!

    • Chloerayne516

      06/10/2011 at 7:23 PM

      Sounds fair but who really going to put their OWN carfax out there???? *justsayin*

      but didn't someone say that eventually they will show their true colors.

  7. MistaHarsh

    06/10/2011 at 8:30 PM

    Hoe: a human being who doesn't believe in sex without moral boundaries but almost helplessly engages in it anyways.

    The difference between being "experienced" and a hoe is the guilt. Hoes care what you say/think about them. Hoes have so much guilt but always fall in the face of temptation. That's why you find some at church.

  8. Half a HERO

    06/13/2011 at 3:16 PM

    I think that once you are out of high school everyone is a H0e. Basically we all do adult things or are expected to and some things are mandatory like head!

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