I remember talking to a young woman recently and she was describing to me how hectic her day had been. She had to wake up at 5 am and run errands, work, go to school and still keep her house together as she is an avid workaholic. I said to her that I think that’s very sexy, to which she was taken aback and asked “What’s so sexy about running around like a chicken with it’s head cut off?” to which I replied: “Simple. It’s A LOT sexier than being lazy.”
In my opinion one of the most rapid erection deflating sights is seeing a lazy-a*s, unproductive, unmotivated, slouch-back, no energy-having beeyotch laying on her stanking-batty not doing a damn thing to better herself or anyone around her. I remember realizing this even as a kid, when I would be at my work computer after school chatting with some girls on MSN asking them what they are up to and some of them would be like: “Nothing, just chillin on the block with the man dem.” Now even though some of these chicks looked like Kelly Rowland in Destiny’s Child, they might as well have looked like Jim Kelly in Enter The Dragon, because they INSTANTLY looked UGLY after saying that.
As I mature as a man I realize that I am addicted to workaholics. I am addicted to women with the internal belief that they have the ability to control the possibilities of their destiny through hard work and determination. There is something incredibly sexy about a woman who can carry herself like a Boss at work, a bright young Intellect at school, a Lady in the streets and most importantly pull it all off with her understated sexiness from her slightly frizzled hair right down to her stressed but hopeful semi-smile she flashes ever so often. These women pique my interest because of one word: Resiliency. That is not just an admirable trait for a person to have, it’s a necessary trait for any wife-able woman to have, because it speaks volumes about her STRENGTH.
Also, in the vein of being honest, Nerdy workaholics are SEXY as HELL because you know underneath that hardened exterior and serious facade that she has to display throughout her long day, there is a TIGRESS waiting to get out of there. A caged lioness that needs you to pick that lock so she can come out and play and forget the homework, the 10-hour days, her A*shole Boss and just GIVE IT TO YOU. She wraps her freakiness in a shell of nerdy interests, but she will work the richard just as hard as her new Project and it’s gonna be intense because she has a LOT to get out.
Sexy, Nerdy Workaholics, I SALUTE YOU – and seeing as how it’s the weekend coming up, it would be in your best interests to let Queen Sarabi out the cage and get it in.
This Is Your Conscience
[ed. note: Let's see who catches the Lion King reference]
29 Comments, Comment or Ping
Kam
LOL I caught the Lion King reference Queen Sarabi is Simba's mom in the Lion King….I'm losing cool points for knowing this huh?
Being a sexy, nerdy, workaholic has its good points but sometimes your relationships suffer because of it. And I'm not only referring to the the intimate/conjugal ones but friends and family. Anyhow I agree with this post nothing is sexier to me than a man with a lot of drive and ambition who actually goes out there and tries to reach his goals. It's real hot.
Dec 3rd, 2010
max
Except for the slightly frizzled hair this is pretty close to being me. Problem is though that it's all well and good for men to think busy women are sexy; but when said busy woman doesn't have time to see him the exact instant he wants to be seen he's running after the lazy slouch-back b!tch with a quickness.
Dec 3rd, 2010
The_Mad_HATER
2 things..
1. As long as thier schedule coincides busy people are good for each other!
2. the only niggas finding lazy bitches sexy are lazy ass niggas!
Dec 3rd, 2010
max
I'm pretty sure at least 90% of men with a boner would take some easy, available 24/7 pu$$y from a wutless girl before they waited 45 minutes to get it from a busy woman.
Dec 3rd, 2010
The_Mad_HATER
who said lazy girls were any easier?? busy just means she got shit to do from 9-5!
i can still get it in from 11-2!
Dec 3rd, 2010
MostInteresting
That picture is awesome. Should've cropped ole'boy out though.
On the low though, lazy, lay on the couch with rollers in her hair, doesn't make time for anything except bootknocking chicks be sexy on too though. Don't sleep. In certain segments of society, some women are just good a sex and bad a life. They need love too.
But yeah, nerdy, workaholic go getters are uber sexy… that's why I married one.
Dec 3rd, 2010
Independent Woman
Seeing as mostly women are on this site, we don't mind Lupe's sexiness in the pic!
Dec 3rd, 2010
ddddddddddddd
exactlyyyyyyyyy
Dec 3rd, 2010
keisha brown
the only caveat is that sometimes ones business is used against you.. oh..you are too busy for me blah blah…
man up! if you make time for me. i make time for you = happy times.
Dec 3rd, 2010
seven
So true. Certain dudes are too needy and can't handle a woman with a full life. That lazy witch will need their insecure ass back, cause she aint got shit going for her. Its a match made is co-dependency heaven.
Dec 3rd, 2010
MistaHarsh
That's why busy people can only gel with other busy people. They're not dwelling on the lack of quality time because the time they do have they make every minute count. But if one has idle time that's when the devil creeps in.
Dec 3rd, 2010
MistaHarsh
side note: Tracy Ross has the most slept on phatty
Dec 3rd, 2010
lincolnanthonyblades
Co-Sign
Dec 3rd, 2010
lincolnanthonyblades
I Think We Need To Stop Associating Bitchassness With Men In General…I Agree There's MUSTY Niggas Out There Who Get Vex When Their Woman Leaves The House For A Couple Hours But Let's Not Make It Look Like All Men Are Like That…
I Have 12 Hour Days, What The Hell I Look Like Getting Mad Because She's Busy Too?
Dec 3rd, 2010
lincolnanthonyblades
It Sounds Like Some Ladies In This Thread Are Nerdy Workaholics Who Just Ran Into MR. NOTHINGS
Dec 3rd, 2010
Blqessence George
I love this article Lincoln… and I love me the nerdy, workaholic, smart, sexy men as well! Love it!
Dec 3rd, 2010
Shash
Being too busy can work against both men and women, there are women out there who can't even understand how anyone can be busy. Downside is, as a busy man how do I even meet a woman who is as busy as me, where do I find a chick like that, and if I do, how do we build something if we barely have time for ourselves.
You ever see those girls walking all fast on king street, I need to know how to start a conversation with her.
Dec 4th, 2010
lincolnanthonyblades
Good Eye!
Dec 4th, 2010
lincolnanthonyblades
I'm Nerdy! [Not Sure About The Rest Though LoL]
Dec 4th, 2010
lincolnanthonyblades
Bro I Been Asking People The Same Damn Question…And I Still Haven't Got An Answer Yet
Dec 4th, 2010
DatchikMalix
again we agree on something! PREACH!!!! lol
Dec 6th, 2010
DatchikMalix
attack her with a Starbucks card!!!
jus sayin…they always got time for coffee…especially OVERPRICE coffee…
#YourWelcome!
Dec 6th, 2010
Adrian
THANK YOU! Co-Sign to tha fullest! All women need to read Lincoln's statement above several times so that it's ingrained in their heads. And don't get it twisted! Only lazy, needy ass men want lazy, needy ass women!
Dec 7th, 2010
Adrian
Try going to lounges/bar/cafes/etc. where the king & bay street crowd frequent. (Happy Hour anyone?
)
or
Talk to the girl when you see her on your way to work. Make eye contact, smile and say Hello to start things off. Make the convo short and simple (she's busy and has someplace to be) and ask for her email.
I find the the latter works best because women are less guarded when they're caught up in their daily routine.
Dec 7th, 2010
Brandy
Word Max- I was just thinking that! At the end of the day I man usually isn't trying to wait around for a busy woman when the frowsy woman is ALWAYS available! I am a nurse, I am in school, and I can't tell you how many times a man has gotten frustrated with me because I am so busy.
Dec 15th, 2011
grandgryph
the article was a pretty wordy way to say "i'm not dating no damn princess".
Dec 15th, 2011
imakesense
:/
Dec 15th, 2011
TB123
Thanks for saluting us! Its easy to be so wrapped up in our lives that involves major juggling and a man that appreciates it is great! *Back to my HW*
Dec 15th, 2011
Evie
My life in a nut shell. That is all.
Dec 16th, 2011
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