"You know Mary from Marketing let me hit that last night right?! I told her 'Pop that p*ssy for a real goon!"
Back in the days, one of the most prevalent ideologies regarding male/female relationships was the belief that women were WAY too loose-lipped when it came to revealing details and identities of their sex partners. We use to believe that if you smashed a woman too good, too bad, or you were just someone noteworthy, she would let details of your richard reach her friends and subsequently the general public. I mean, hell, we basically assigned GOSSIP as a predominantly female trait. When I was growing up, dudes felt they NEEDED to instruct women to keep what they do on the down low in hopes of them not running their mouths and telling everyone around town whats going on between them [especially since that might throw salt in his gaming of other women]. But now those days are OFFICIALLY DEAD – because it’s not women who are steady bragging and dry-snitching – it’s this new breed of B!TCHASS MAN that’s doing this.
So a couple days ago, LA Lakers bench player and Basketball Wives D-list star Matt Barnes got into a twitter beef over his ex-fiance [and Basketball Wives E-List star] Gloria Govan, with one of The Game’s sorry-ass friends named Avante Rose [a name that sounds like it should be announced with a glitter bomb]. Apparently after Matt and Gloria split, Avante got it in with her in THEIR house, where THEIR children rest their heads at. Then, for some unknown reason, this frowsy, trifling, ignorant nigga decided that he needed to put up a post-squirt picture of her laying up in bed wearing his Money Gang shirt on f*^king TWITTER:
Oh but the rabid and incessant nig-norance doesn’t stop there. After putting her ass on full blast, he THEN decided to go in on Matt Barnes, bragging about digging out his baby-moms – on Twitter – arguably the most PUBLIC of all social networking forums:
And this Twitter beef clearly had the E-thugs and ratchetweeters going NUTS – but the reality is, him and his ilk are the absolute HEIGHT of B!TCHASSNESS. I would lose ALL respect for this C*NT if I had any to begin with. But it’s NOT just him, it’s this new wave of immature little boys who tie their ego’s to the pain and drama they cause by making the notches on their bedpost public record. Not only are you morally bankrupt DOUCHEBAGS, but more importantly you are F*^KING up the game for REAL men trying to do their thing.
Listen, I LOVE amateur pr0n [as long as it was filmed and posted with mutual consent], but I CRINGE every time some p*ssy-ass teen boy posts a video to Twitter of some girl giving him [and his friends] neck for the world to see. And I DON’T differentiate my disgust for them, with the abject HATE I have for these frowsy men “exposing” women they smashed in an attempt to socially degrade her. My question Is: What part of the game is that?
It’s definitely NOT part of being a ladies man/Gallis/player, etc. It’s definitely NOT part of being a grown man. Hell, it’s NOT even part of being a basic, functioning troglodyte. All it is, is being a self-aggrandizing E-THUG who would sell his soul for 100 RT’s and 7 minutes and 30 seconds of fame. So save your pics, e-mails, naked flicks, etc. because you deserve ZERO props for acting like an emotionally-compromised B!TCH.
This Is Your Conscience
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lincolnanthonyblades
Ladies & Gentlemen, Do You Think These Dudes Are BITCHASSES Or Is It Really The Fault Of Trifling Women Who Do Trifling Sh*t With Trifling Men Who ALLOW Themselves To Get Played?
Feb 22nd, 2012
Pe.Riche.
I think it is a combination of the two. First, what two consenting adults do in private should remain just that, PRIVATE. Either party exposing the details of what happened (be it word of mouth, pics, videos…) without the consent of the other person involved is just wrong and extremely immature. If you have to boast about your sexual exploits all like that, then you just ain't getting enough.
However, people who put on blast their intimate encounters are frowsy people to begin with. They exhibit signs of being douchbags (in Gloria's case, a dude that is willing to sleep with you in the house that YOUR man provided for you and where your KIDS sleep is a d-bag indeed) long before they actually do something frowsy. I honestly believe that what someone will do for you, they will also do TO you. So, if he's willing to cheat with her, then why wouldn't he do something equally dubious to her?
Feb 22nd, 2012
Kim
I love that you use frowsy and trogolodyte in the same article. I totally agree, but sadly most of us 'like' to see the drama unfold even if we are simultaneously disgusted..
Feb 22nd, 2012
Paul B.
In this case, both. Unfortunately, she has made a history of taking things that should have been behind closed doors and made them public so it's somewhat ironic and poetic justice than an even more irrelevant person in the public eye has now done the same. This goes a bit further in showing that some men expose the women they don't give a rat's *ss about. Then again, I doubt she cared either.
Feb 22nd, 2012
MistaHarsh
We're in the age of new technology and what do folks use it for? Dry snitchin, filming fights yelling "WORLDSTAR!!", Uploading racist jokes on twitter only to delete it the next hour.
This is how dumb people have always spent their time. The difference is now this ish can lead to money and all it takes is an iphone a free twit account and stupidity.
Feb 22nd, 2012
NurseJilly
While I do think he is a giant douche bag for doing this I blame her equally. She layed up in that bed posing for a pic in his sweatshirt I have no doubt this fame whore was aware if not encouraged him to tweet the picture. I'm sure she looks at it as free publicity to promote her foolish reality show. These fools belong together..
Feb 22nd, 2012
MzDebbieFields
I disagree! It's common today to take sexy pics and make sexy vids but there's an understanding that its not suppose to be shared!!
This guy is nothing but an asshole for putting her on blast and any guy who abuses a woman's trust like that is a total d*ck!!
Feb 22nd, 2012
MzDebbieFields
So what about that girl who had her business put out in the street when she gave some boys head??? This is affecting a lot of decent girls too!!
Feb 22nd, 2012
MzDebbieFields
Everyone keeps focusing on these two people like this is not an issue that affects all women now!!! Men you are suppose to trust are now putting your entire vagina in the streets on a whim and they should be criminally prosecuted for it!!
Feb 22nd, 2012
ChloeRayne516
Well for starters, evidently Gloria was just a POP to him because I truly believe that any man that cares about you in some kind of way or at least respects you WOULD NOT put your bizness on Front Street/E-Street in the first place, so with that being said Gloria needs to just take that L and have a seat because she was the fool for posing all up in the camera for the photo in the first place and not doing her due diligence, I mean come on now you are a D-list celebrity did she not think dude wouldn't try to use her as a comeup… Girl Get A Clue!!
Feb 22nd, 2012
ChloeRayne516
This goes a bit further in showing that some men expose the women they don't give a rat's *ss about.
Yep!!!
Feb 22nd, 2012
msjordan11
I don't know the deets of their relationship so I can't say he was outrightly playing her and she was aware of it. Maybe he was giving her some fake game and acting like a gentleman? I'm sure she didn't think he would act like a little b*tch after. And that pic is her wearing his shirt. It's not like she was giving him head on video. I don't see why she is in the wrong.
I think it's very immature that he said those things and put it out there publicly and I hope it does warn future women who want to lay with this dog. But there'll always be another one willing to bite the dust…
Feb 22nd, 2012
ChloeRayne516
She knew they were filming her……
Feb 22nd, 2012
MzDebbieFields
She didn't know they were gonna post it on Twitter and make her a trending topic…she didn't agree to that
Feb 22nd, 2012
BADDEST
I think douches both male and female will find each other….hence this whole story
I think men PEOPLE who f*ck those they have no issue with exposing, embarassing etc are WEAK …seriously….whether its gonna be a "serious" thing or a one night fling for F*CKS SAKE get it in with someone you actually like….or at the very least who you can respect….
Feb 22nd, 2012
NurseJilly
But she agreed to let them film her?? I'm confused… Who the heck did she think the video was for?
Feb 22nd, 2012
ChloeRayne516
That's what I'm saying!!!
Feb 22nd, 2012
NurseJilly
I have to disagree with that… It should not be common practive for women to be taking and sharing sexy pics or videos. Taking them for your own enjoyment is one thing but once they leave your possession they don't belong to you anymore.
Feb 22nd, 2012
The_Mad_HATER
real damn talk!!
Feb 22nd, 2012
Vicky
JUST STOP!
Don't try to get all "it affects all women" bullshit- NO it does not!
Not all women allow randoms take "Sexy pics or videos".
Unfortunately it is common this day and age to text/bbm/whatever you use, a sexy pic. Once it's one someone's phone/email/video camera, it's no longer up to you to determine what that person is going to do with it.
This wasn't a serious relationship of any nature, it was a simple f*ck. SHE was stupid to allow him to take pictures. Just like most women who send out their pics or allow their f*ck buddies to take pics….I have no sympathy when they see their ass posted on any social media outlet
Feb 22nd, 2012
Paul B.
My point exactly.
Feb 22nd, 2012
Vicky
Possession is 9/10 of the law!
Feb 22nd, 2012
NurseJilly
"I have no sympathy when they see their ass posted on any social media outlet."
Co friggin sign!!!!
Feb 22nd, 2012
ChloeRayne516
+2!!!
"Once it's one someone's phone/email/video camera, it's no longer up to you to determine what that person is going to do with it. "
Please say it again in sign language for the women with their Dr. J Mega Earphones on.
Feb 22nd, 2012
ChloeRayne516
*Dr. Dre…*
Feb 22nd, 2012
grandgryph
get em harsh!!
Feb 22nd, 2012
Paul B.
+2
Feb 22nd, 2012
flyygirl
word up!
Feb 22nd, 2012
flyygirl
Which man is gonna turn down the puumps because he is in the house where an ex may have provided for u and urs. That is all on her! Lmao…. That was a good try though.
Feb 22nd, 2012
flyygirl
Im interested to know your take on how, or why even, this affects ALL women
Feb 22nd, 2012
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