Double Standard Alert: Women The Longer You’re Single, The More You Look Like A H0E

What we THINK single women are doing: Staying wet and ready...

So Ladies, You Found A Man You Thought Was Good, You Gave Him Your Heart, He Didn’t Know How To Handle It With Care And Broke It, So You Packed Your Bags (Or Threw His On The Lawn) And You Have Entered Into The World Of Dating, Far Away From Happiness & Joy Of Relationship-Land. Now Besides The Bitter, Lonely And Sad Single Women, There Are Actually A Few Who Are HAPPY BEING SINGLE. They Love Their Independence And The Fact That They Don’t Need To Answer To Anybody. This Is A Common Scenario That Most Women Go Through, Unfortunately Though As A Single Woman HAPPY To Be Unnattached It Comes With One Major Problem:

If You Are SINGLE & LOVING IT For TOO Long, People Are Going To Start Thinking You Are Now A Career H0E.

This Is A Really Unfortunate Double-Standard In This Sense: When Men Say They Are Single And Loving It, The Assumption is They Are Getting So Much Booty That Of COURSE They Should Be Loving It. They Are Racking Up Wilt Chamberlain Numbers On Their Bed Posts And Having All The Freaky One-Night Threesome Sex Their Heart’s Desire. When Women Say They Are Single And Loving It We Think THE SAME EXACT THING, Which Means She’s Really A Skank.

Why Do We Think Worse Of Women? Because The Conservative Part Of Our Community (i.e. Our Parents/Grand-Parents) Still Believe That It Is Indented Into The Female Psyche That She Should WANT & NEED A Husband, Kids & A Certain Amount Of Dependency (Like They Did) And If A Woman Does NOT Want That Then She Is A LOST CHILD Who Likes Wandering In And Out Of Different Men’s Bedrooms.

The Funny Thing About This Double Standard Is That Single Men Will Play Up To It Even When They AREN’T Getting Any Action Because They Feel It Elevates Their Alpha-Male Status. Women On The Other Hand Who Aren’t Getting Any Action Either, Rarely Even Have The Chance To Defend Themselves Because What People Say About Her Sex Life Is Usually Said Behind Her Back.

What most single women are ACTUALLY doing...

But I Have A Saying Ladies: “Never Waste Time Trying To Pull People Out Of The Darkness Of Ignorance, When They Can’t Stand The Light Of Knowledge.”

This Is Your Conscience

When Lincoln Anthony Blades is not writing for his controversial and critically acclaimed blog, he can be found contributing articles for Uptown Magazine. Lincoln wrote the hilarious and insightful book "You're Not A Victim, You're A Volunteer: How To Stop Letting Love Kick Your Ass". He is also a public speaker who has sat on panels all over North America and the Caribbean.