The Worst Sex Lie We’ve Been Told: MULTIPLE ORGASMS Are Damn-Near Impossible


As faithful and casual readers of TIYC have probably noticed A LOT of is the fact that I’ve been going extra hard to push my FIRST ever Ebook “The Myth Of The Multiple Orgasm” & I know the title must be INCREDIBLY misleading to some people so I wanted to provide you all with a FREE peek into the intro chapter of my Ebook which clarifies the greatest lie we’ve EVER been told about sex: That giving a woman multiple orgasms is either IMPOSSIBLE or HIGHLY UNLIKELY.

Here’s the intro of my book:

I think its pretty safe to say that most grown-ass men and women have at least HEARD the term “multiple orgasm” and if they are sexually active, they have probably done a little informal research on it too (Google and Wikipedia for the win). Hell, what sexually interested person wouldn’t want to know if multiple orgasms are a real thing and how exactly can they be performed?

Really think about it for a second – dudes could really be the “Bedroom Bullies” they’ve always dreamed of, leaving unsuspecting females experiencing deep-orgasmic after shocks all through her body and solidifying the strength of his A+ sex game. And women, learning they could cum harder than they ever previously imagined, could be exposed to a level of pleasure they only previously dreamed about. So of course we all WANT to know if multiples are a real thing – it will largely affect ALL of our relationships forever.

But the second folks start researching the term multiple orgasms, they will quickly learn one annoying-ass fact: There is NO conclusive answer regarding the existence of multiple orgasms and all the theories around the topic exist on such opposite ends of the spectrum that it becomes impossible to even formulate a mildly coherent middle-ground theory on the subject. Basically bruh, Some experts’ say that only 10% of women are multi-orgasmic, while, in contrast, other experts state almost 80% of all women bust multiple nuts in any given session. In fact, you can find “sexperts” who willingly proffer the idea that even MEN can be multi-orgasmic, busting off more shots than a drive-by shooting.

The fact that there is NO general consensus on this issue leads to ONE common reaction in MOST people: Apathy. In these days, if people can’t get a definitive and unchallenged answer on an issue they believe should be factual (like human biology) we tend to believe that new information is just science run-a-muck (I.e. how people don’t believe in global warming). But here’s the thing with this apathy – it transfers over to our overall ideologies about sex and relationships, and how much credence should be lent to it’s overall importance (“man you can’t give a woman no damn ‘multiple orgasm’ so why even try?”).

And that brings me to the MYTH of the multiple orgasm – which is that multiple orgasms are a myth at all. By propagating it as an unattainable and unrealistic “achievement”, it creates lethargy in love making that is predicated on actions that can be deemed “good enough.” The same people who will tell you multiple orgasms are a myth, are the same people who relegate their sexual experiences and experimentation into a socially, politically correct confined box. The person who easily talks shit about multi orgasmic sex being a real thing, will turn around and preach to you about great sex not needing to be orgasmic at all (which I can slightly agree on in some cases), how we live in a society that propagates sex as something we focus too much attention on in relationships, and eventually saying the most ignorant statement of all: Sex isn’t even the most important part of a relationship – which is utter BULLSHIT.

As much as I love debating, there’s one argument I’m sick and tired of talking about, and it’s constantly brought to me in the form of THIS question: “What’s more important in a relationship – a great sexual connection or amazing mental and emotional chemistry?” As much as people LOVE to pontificate on this subject by choosing one of the options and then subsequently extolling the “benefits” of WHY everyone else should value that exact option with equal fervor (IGNORING the fact that we are ALL intrinsically different as grown-ass adults who require different things out a relationship), most people are DEAD wrong on this topic. The answer is simply this: Neither is MORE important, because all aspects of a relationship are EQUALLY important.

The ideology that the sexual and emotional/mental components of your relationship are even competing factors is absolutely ridiculous. It’s like asking ‘what’s the most important part of a Cheeseburger: The cheese or the burger?’ The fact is, BOTH parts are equally and incredibly important, and to act as if one can be struggling or nonexistent in a SUCCESSFUL union is utter BS. SEX is just as important as a great mental and emotional connection in a GREAT relationship.

But with that said, many of us have such specific and unique sexual appetites, it’s not exactly easy to have all of our physical desires met, which makes it VERY easy for disappointment to creep in. That resulting disappointment can manifest itself into emotional problems and, even worse, result in a complete loss of intimacy (where you no longer have a significant other, but just a friend you share the bed with).

And that’s where this book comes in.

If you are a man reading this, you [like me] are probably very interested in pleasing women to the full extent of your ability, and while you already have a repertoire of sex moves, you want to expand your arsenal. You are SMART as hell because you understand that hubris and acting like you know everything about sex is childish and stupid. Any man interested in having a progressive sex life should realize ONE important fact: There’s ALWAYS room to improve and space to learn more.

If you are a woman reading this, chances are you want to help a man in your life improve his performance or just gain insight into how men think about lust and making love. I have included tips on how YOU can improve your performance in bed while he’s stepping his up, but the full book directed to you stepping your sex game up will be coming in the future [and will feature a LOT of tips from women that have been co-signed by MANY men].

I hope you all enjoy.

To those of you who have purchased the book, it gets VERY descriptive with A LOT of pictures detailing exactly how to get into Post-Barrier sex [a term you need to purchase the book to get the FULL gist of]. Although it’s my FIRST ever ebook, I’m really proud of it and I feel it’s a great tool for men and women to BOTH read to START their journey towards becoming a fully-functioning multi-orgasmic couple. I feel it’s definitely worth the money and all of your support with purchasing it is MORE than appreciated.

Also, because I appreciate giving back to my readers for all your support over the last couple of years, I am running the Multiple Orgasm Contest where I will be giving away a FREE copy to one reader. Here are the contest details below:

Contest will run for 1 week
How to enter: 5 easy steps (each step must be completed to WIN) and the details can be found in the contest link below:

Enter The Giveaway

Once again, I appreciate ALL of your continued support.

This Is Your Conscience

When Lincoln Anthony Blades is not writing for his controversial and critically acclaimed blog, he can be found contributing articles for Uptown Magazine. Lincoln wrote the hilarious and insightful book "You're Not A Victim, You're A Volunteer: How To Stop Letting Love Kick Your Ass". He is also a public speaker who has sat on panels all over North America and the Caribbean.


  1. lincolnanthonyblades

    10/02/2012 at 12:24 PM

    Ladies & Gentlemen, Do You Think Multiple Orgasms Could Occur More Frequently If People Focused More On Developing Their SEXUAL Health?

    • Dyquen

      10/02/2012 at 9:00 PM

      Definitely. Both partners increase their individual and unified experience web they both know exactly what button to push and how long to keep your finger on it. For example; after watching 40 days and 40 nights, I decided to try a no physical touching sexual experience. The flower petal trick didn't work but while doing that and trying different things I found that whistling different tones and pitches close to her ear not blowing into it got her to cum so hard I had to laugh when it happened. To this day, after unlocking that trick. Even though I'm not with her anymore and just friends, if I start whistling those specific tones, she will cum then punch me for doing it.

      The idea is to figure out specifically what will get her to bust a nut. And bear in mind that you don't need to touch her to make it happen. Once u get past your own needs and go into it just for her you will learn the trick of the rolling orgasm. Basically its a rapid fire multiple orgasm occurring so close together it's almost like one big one that keeps going, rolling one on top of the other.
      Beware though, this is not for every woman, you might get kicked in the nuts pulling that rabbit trick without warning.

      • lincolnanthonyblades

        10/03/2012 at 3:52 AM

        Real Talk!

    • iluvwhoiluv

      10/04/2012 at 10:27 AM

      Most definitely!

    • Iredcv

      12/19/2013 at 2:08 PM

      Dude, I'm a woman and I have only experienced multiple orgasms one or two times in my 26 years of life. It's not a matter of stimulation or technique; it's simply that 99,9 % of the times it won't happen, period. All the statistics I've seen speak of just a 13-15 % of women having multiple orgasms. And a similar amount of men having them. They're the exception, not the norm.

  2. imakesense

    10/02/2012 at 10:39 PM

    Still think its based on the individual, but good luck with your ebook won't knock your hustle! Would support but still a broke student:(.

    Oh and please keep the blog going!

    • lincolnanthonyblades

      10/03/2012 at 3:52 AM


  3. China

    10/03/2012 at 1:01 AM

    I almost read this wrong…………

    "I am running the Multiple Orgasm Contest where I will be giving away a FREE……"
    Multiple Orgasms!

    • lincolnanthonyblades

      10/03/2012 at 3:52 AM

      LOL! I Should've Phrased That A Little Differently!

  4. singleislandgal

    10/03/2012 at 12:20 PM

    I've never had an orgasm, so multiple orgasm is just a dream to me, but interesting post as it is.

    • lincolnanthonyblades

      10/03/2012 at 2:18 PM

      There's 2 books you should try reading. 1st is mine and 2nd is the multi-orgasmic woman. They can both give some valuable insight.

    • guest

      10/10/2013 at 2:58 PM

      Wow, you don't know what your missing. Its truly amazing. Especially to be taken there with someone that you love and for them to know how to take you there.

    • Aitch xXx

      03/29/2014 at 8:17 PM

      RELAX RELAX RELAX.. that is the first and most important thing, once that is learnt it is simply down to technique and time. It will come and so will you xx

  5. 2cool4school

    10/03/2012 at 3:30 PM

    Wow food for thought, in response to

    “What’s more important in a relationship – a great sexual connection or amazing mental and emotional chemistry?”

    I think that a great sexual connection is SLIGHTLY more important. This is my rationale: I can only get sexual gratification from myself or husband, going outside that is cheating. However, I can get the mental and emotional support from friends and family when my husband is lacking. I mean I don't talk to my man about everything there has to be some mystique or boredom ensues.

    • lincolnanthonyblades

      10/03/2012 at 4:13 PM

      Good point. I slightly disagree in putting the sexual connection ahead but that's an argument I can definitely understand.

  6. Renee

    10/24/2013 at 10:18 PM

    A well balanced emotional connection is 1st & all the rest will fall into place. IMO, I’m more in charge of my multi-o’s as my mate. From personal experience, when my relationship proved challenging, sex wasn’t the same; orgasms weren’t as strong and didnt multiply as much.

  7. Aitch xXx

    03/29/2014 at 8:12 PM

    Intense read, I cant help feeling sorry for singleislandgal who states she has never had an orgasm OMG she and all other women in her position need help. seriously… x

  8. xnxx

    04/15/2015 at 4:27 AM

    Great post. Hell, what sexually interested person wouldn’t want to know if multiple orgasms are a real thing and how exactly can they be performed. The idea is to figure out specifically what will get her to bust a nut. And bear in mind that you don't need to touch her to make it happen.

  9. xnxx

    04/29/2015 at 11:46 AM

    Thanks for good articles. Every individual be it a male or a female have the urge to count their sex life in multiples and in turn they want to go for the same activity with different age groups.

  10. xnxx

    05/09/2015 at 7:56 PM

    I must thank you for the efforts you have put in writing this site. I really hope to see the same high-grade blog posts from you in the future as well. In fact, your creative writing abilities has motivated me to get my own.

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