As a man, it’s finally time to stand up and say that I am getting sick and tired of hearing dumb-a*s dudes b*tch and moan about how so many women are NOT wifey material…while their broke, lazy, unemployed, angry and unattractive ass is sitting in the passenger side of his boy’s whip yelling obscene comments out the window at high school girls in kilts and high socks.
Though I am about to slightly divert from man code, this needs to be said: Us men need to make sure WE are “Husband Material” before we start casting aspersions over which women aren’t “Wife-Material.” At ThisIsYourConscience you will get more than your fill of opinion, as I think blogging is an “occupation” made for people with strong ones, but to have firm beliefs does NOT = into you having to be judgmental. I try hard to NOT be judgmental because at the end of the day, I have so many overt flaws that if a woman (or anyone for that matter) decided to put me on blast I could end up with more psychological problems than Bi-polar ass Joe Budden. More men probably should try to be less judgmental too, because a lot of the women we THINK are Wife Material are so FAR out of our frowsy-league that we need NOT look to them; and the ones we Judge as NOT being Wife Material are the ones who realistically are right up some of our alley’s.
Now we all have our own definitions and descriptions of what makes a woman a Wife vs. a Scallywag, as with husband material. As far as I’m concerned, a good quality couple is based on how well they are socially and mentally aligned. When I hear about 2 porn stars getting married that makes sense to me, because as much as people might say she’s a h0e, at the end of the day they both have similar social tastes and the same outlook on life which makes her (as much of a h0e as she might be) perfect Wife Material FOR HIM. Which means you can’t turn up your nose at the $2 h0e when you are just a $2 Negro.
But how many guys are really ready to hear that? How many guys want to admit that to be able to say they DESERVE a certain type of woman, they themselves have a lot of work to do their-damn-selves?
Some of you dudes need to stop thinking you deserve CLAIRE HUXTABLE, when all you are bringing to the table is Theo’s friend COCKROACH.
This Is Your Conscience