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The other day I saw an interesting show on TV that I've never seen before called "Same Name." The premise of the show is that a real life person who shares the exact same name as a popular celebrity must exchange lives with each other for one week and experience the culture shock. The show I saw was Kathy Griffin's where she exchanges lives with a Black woman with the same name from a rich suburb in Atlanta. Though there were many ... Read More

Often times when I speak to my homegirls, they make a concerted effort to make me VERY aware of the fact that getting good richard nowadays is a complete crapshoot. As far as these women are concerned it's not even 50/50 anymore, it's more more 30/70 [basically saying that she has a 3/10 chance of meeting a dude that can properly blow her back out and 7/10 that it will be average to WELL below average]. And the reason for this modern ... Read More

Ladies & Gentleman, I Can Not Stress Enough The Importance Of Knowing Your Significant Other's Financial Situation From How Much They Make, To Their Weekly Spending Habits Right Down To Their Credit Score. Some People Feel Really Awkward About Bringing That Stuff Up Because It Seems So Invasive, Especially If You Add The Dynamic That's Causing So Much Controversy In The Black Community: Where The Woman Is Earning MORE Than Her Man. You Don't Wan't To Look Like A Self-Importance B*tch To ... Read More

[caption id="attachment_7609" align="aligncenter" width="240" caption="Now Drake gon' have to apologize with the quickness.."][/caption] Let's keep it real: We ALL have friends and family members in relationships with people we deem to be DOUCHEBAGS, BUT they are so in love with their significant other that we realize saying anything TOO negative will run the risk of driving a wedge between us and our loved ones. So what do we do? We hold it ALL inside until that inevitable day we get that call from ... Read More

[caption id="attachment_7603" align="aligncenter" width="530" caption="He's been waiting all day for you..."][/caption] Ladies & Gentlemen, It's Valentine's Day/New Year's Eve/Your Birthday/Your Anniversary/President's Day/Family Day/Tax Refund Day/Whatever Occasion is "Special" to you day, and it's time to get some good nani and richard in celebration - some of the BEST you've ever had, right?! Read More

[caption id="attachment_7597" align="aligncenter" width="501" caption="She's NOT gonna count him...cause she's drunk...and it's only 2 minutes...plus she's on vacation.."][/caption] Yesterday, Independent Woman wrote a post titled Dear Men, Interrogate Your Woman About Her Past At YOUR OWN RISK in which she stated that men should flat out avoid asking their women about who they slept with in the past and other sordid details about her sexual history. But in the comment section, Susan Jordan said something that was 100% truth: "RARELY do women ... Read More

[caption id="attachment_7587" align="aligncenter" width="467" caption="This pic would be a LOT less sexier if the stairs were full of old Chinese food containers and tampon wrappers"][/caption] Growing up, one myth that is continually perpetuated upon young boys everywhere, is that we are rowdy, rough, frowsy, nasty little bastards, while our female counterparts are demure, immaculate, flawless, fresh-to-death little angels and we need to wipe the musty sweat off our brows and wash up before we ever even THINK of talking to them. This is ... Read More

[caption id="attachment_7572" align="aligncenter" width="550" caption="Embrace that H0E & THANK HER for all she's done for YOUR relationship"][/caption] Tomorrow is February 14th which is now internationally known as Valentines Day, the day couples celebrate the love they share with one another through buying overpriced gifts and doing random acts of overzealous appreciation. But one thing we never talk about is HOW this couple got together and were able to overcome all the various obstacles standing in the way of true love and CONQUER them. ... Read More

[caption id="attachment_7462" align="aligncenter" width="466" caption="Did she just MAKE LOVE or did she just F*^K?"][/caption] I had a conversation with two of my homegirls the other day [let's call them Shanice & Jade (shoutout to 90's R&B)] and we were talking about falling in love TOO FAST. See, Shanice is getting married in April to a dude she met in August, and her best friend Jade wanted me to talk her out of it over the phone on three-way but I just couldn't do ... Read More

[caption id="attachment_7539" align="aligncenter" width="492" caption=""I dunno anymore heffa! You tell me what you wanna hear dammit!""][/caption] If there is one concept that MOST women are intimately familiar with, it's the ideology that COMMUNICATION is the most important part of a relationship. Women who believe this KNOW the key to a successful relationship - unfortunately very few women know how to PRACTICE it. Read More