The Tenth Man: Why Women Have An Irrational Fear Of Having Sex Partners In The Double Digits

Categories: Sex & Relationships

[caption id="attachment_8341" align="aligncenter" width="368" caption="She started recounting at nine..."][/caption] Allow me to list three things that will require a man to channel superhuman powers to achieve doing successfully and unscathed: Dunking over Shaquille O'Neal, getting a cab in Manhattan to take him to Queensbridge at 2:45 am & being a woman's tenth sexual partner - and the last MIGHT be the most difficult. Read More

When The Nani SPEAKS – You Better LISTEN

Categories: Sex & Relationships

In every relationship there is a physical exploratory stage [also known as the "trial and error" stage] where you have both decided to take the step into making your relationship sexual - which can either be the most FUN stage or the most TRAUMATIC. This is the stage where you begin to understand what each other likes, but more importantly, what each other DOESN'T like. The best way to make sure you FULLY enjoy this stage is to listen SOLELY to your ... Read More

Any Woman Who Believes In The “90-Day NO-NANI” Rule Is A Prostitute

Categories: Sex & Relationships

[caption id="attachment_8327" align="aligncenter" width="500" caption=""You can have my heart, undying love, faith, soul and spirit - just not the nani!""][/caption] I have been meaning to write about this issue for about a week now, especially since it is such a big theme of Steve Harvey's new movie, "Think Like A Man" but I wanted to wait a few days to give everyone time to see it so that I don't drop any spoilers. Seeing as they kicked ass this weekend and opened at ... Read More

The Truth About Sex MOST Of Us Are Too P*ssy To Admit…

Categories: Sex & Relationships

[caption id="attachment_8306" align="aligncenter" width="500" caption="Ladies, try picking your man up wearing THIS sometime this summer and its. About. To. Go. DOWN."][/caption] For MANY of us, there is 1 LIE about our sex lives that we are FAR too p*ssy to bring up in real life, and even scared to admit to ourselves in even the most private and intimate thoughts in our own heads: As much as we LOVE having sex [in private and public places] the idea of being caught scares us ... Read More

Ladies, If You Don’t Know What You Want With A Man, Just LEAVE Him ALONE

Categories: Sex & Relationships

In the last couple days I have had conversations with a couple different women that have completely blew my mind. Both women are essentially dealing with the same issue: They are "seeing" men they don't exactly know what USE they have for that guy yet - and that is complete and utter BS. The FACT Is, no GROWN-ass woman has ANY logical reason to be acting like that. Read More

Ladies & Gentlemen, The First Step To Understanding Each Other Is Preparing For HONESTY

Categories: Sex & Relationships

Last night I logged on to the Madame Noire website because they have a video panel series going on called "Ask A Black Man" [although I'm STILL wondering where MY invitation is] and it features a group of different black dudes collectively sharing their feelings on love, sex and relationships. The female host asks tough questions that women want to hear the answer to, and it's the mens' job to provide HONEST answers. Unfortunately, the answers tend to be far TOO real ... Read More

The #1 Sign He’s NOT A GROWN-Ass Man: He Wants A ‘Ride Or Die’ Chick

Categories: Sex & Relationships

You wanna hear some crazy, hilarious and sad sh*t?! I know a dude who is college educated, has a decent job, makes good money and is slowly but surely climbing the corporate ladder - yet he's single and admittedly, very lonely. He meets a lot of smart, educated, driven women, but he simply can't fully connect with them. Why you ask? Because as far as he's concerned, a woman who doesn't come from a poor, deprived and/or ghetto background is simply NOT ... Read More

Is A Relationship That Begins With ANY Form Of LYING DOOMED To Eventually FAIL?!

Categories: Sex & Relationships

As of tomorrow, Friday, April 20th, damn near everyone I know will be going out to see the film 'Think Like A Man' and I would be lying if I said I'm not MORE than a little intrigued to see how this movie plays out [especially since I write a blog with A LOT of sex and relationship content]. So as I watched the trailer again last night, there was one particular relationship-interaction that REALLY caught my eye and intrigued me: The ... Read More

The Most Important Key To Creating A HAPPY Marriage

Categories: Sex & Relationships

[caption id="attachment_8230" align="aligncenter" width="349" caption="Don't let your marriage make you forget how you USE to be..."][/caption] I love going to different relationship blogs, reading "how to" books on sex and relationships, and especially listening to podcasts and radio shows aimed at providing "air-tight" advice to couples on how to keep things cool - because so many of them are so full of SH*T. But my FAVOURITE topic to see and hear get covered is "how to make your marriage work?" or some variation ... Read More

Ladies, If You Don’t LOVE Your Body You’re NOT Ready To Be In A Relationship

Categories: Sex & Relationships

Maintaining a great sex life is a key component in keeping a relationship happy. Some of y'all are reading that and saying "DUH" but don't be so naive that you miss the retorts from so-called "relationship experts" who would have you believe that ALL you need is a great mental connection - that's a load of BS. Of course the mental and emotional parts are the STRONGEST factors of creating a long-lasting union, but the reality is GREAT love consists of a ... Read More