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    New R&B Podcast [Apr. 12/15]: WHAT MORE DO YOU WANT?!?

    On this week’s podcast, I talk about the one mistake EVERY person should avoid when it comes to their friends’ relationships, why I’m completely done with Madonna’s ass and...


    70% of Men Under 34 Are NOT Married – Because They Have SENSE

    Earlier today I read an article called “70% of Men Aged 20-34 Are Not Married” that is based on a new book by Janice Shaw Crouse titled “Marriage Matters.”...

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    Dear Media, Please STOP Portraying Black Victims As Thugs Right After They’re Shot

    There’s a saying that Black people who are shot by police usually die twice: First at the hands of the officer who executed them, and then again by the media...


    #JeNeSuisPasKenya: Why The World Mourned For France But Not 147 Dead Students In Kenya

    The Charlie Hebdo slayings disturbed the hell out of me. Although I’ve never been shot, I feel like the only feeling worse than an actual gun shot is probably...


    Women Who Say They Lose Male-Friends When They Get In Relationships Are LIARS

    I’ve been noticing that even though cuffing season is supposed to be coming to an end, it looks like more people are entering into relationships even though the weather...


    The Truly TERRIFYING Reality Of Walter Scott’s Murder

    For the past week, I’ve been looking over a couple hundred murder cases of officer-involved shootings in the United States as I prepared to write an article for Uptown...


    If You’re Mad Kendrick Lamar Is Engaged To A Light-Skinned Woman, You’re An IDIOT

    When I was younger, my friends and I would sit around and talk about relationships and celebrities, and the one comment we often found ourselves repeating was, “man, dating...


    New R&B Podcast [Apr. 5/15]: ‘Come As You Are’ Doesn’t Mean FROWSY

    On this week’s podcast, I talk about Easter weekend and people who put effort into everything from looking good on Instagram to looking proper for the night club, but...


    White People Need To STOP Setting White People Back

    I could not accurately tell you how many times I’ve heard a Black person say, “damn! S0-and-so has sent Black people back 30 years by doing that shit!” Hell,...


    10 Lowkey-Shady Ways To Respond To Fucked Up Work Emails AND Still Keep Your Job

    Aiight, let me share a quick story with y’all: Four years ago I was working in a cubicle-full office when I received a call from a colleague. She asked...


    Trevor Noah Should Remind Us How FUCKING ANNOYING Liberals Are TOO

    Shitting on conservative American Republicans might be the easiest thing in the world to do. Thanks to people like Bill Maher and Jon Stewart who both raged a seemingly-endless war...


    Can We STOP Begging Celebrities To Champion Social Change?!

    Yesterday, in a room full of rich and famous musicians that read like a veritable who’s-who in the music industry, Jay-Z launched the Tidal music service which is supposed...